Blackfriars celebrated the Feast of St Dominic this year with the Feast of the Assumption on 15 August. This is a special day for the Dominican family in Australia, New Zealand, Papua New Guinea and the Solomon Islands, as the province is named in honour of this feast of Our Lady.
The day was made even more special at Blackfriars with mass celebrated by our newly ordained Chaplain, Fr William Loh OP - his first whole school mass. Following mass, Fr William addressed our community with the story of his journey to the priesthood.
A Discernment Towards Religious Priesthood
I was raised Catholic but nevertheless the faith wasn’t presented to me in a positive way particularly in Catholic high school. By the time I graduated high school in 2004 I had left the Church agnostic and sought happiness in a paid career. But it was not long until I would be reintroduced to the faith.
In 2005 I started my studies in Mechanical Engineering at the University of New South Wales. During my first week on the bus to the university campus I met an acquaintance from primary school who invited me to his charismatic Catholic Youth Group - YFC Youth For Christ - a campus-based ministry. This reintroduced me to the living faith. I saw the faith as a valuable tool for psychological amenity; Christian people generally seemed to be happier people. But the euphoria of the charismatic and youth-orientated praise did not fully satisfy me. I was searching for more and I still lacked true belief in Christ. Nevertheless, this was how I began my search for deeper truth. I even became involved in leadership roles in both YFC and in my parish youth group.
During this time I maintained a double life between two different cultures, university life and youth group. The pressure of studies and my social life during this period eventually took its toll and I had to extend my engineering studies for another year.
In 2008, knowing that I would to be held back in the university for another year, I drew my attention towards exploring meaning rather than academic results. The opportunity came in a very tangible way in the form of World Youth Day in 2008 which was held in Sydney. People from all over the world gathered with the Pope to celebrate our faith. The experience gave me a deep sense of the universality of mankind’s longing for love which truly satisfies, the love of God. I also realised that God had already given me particular gifts and that I yearned to give of myself beyond my own selfishness but did not know how. I thought of the priesthood but did not believe I was capable of taking on such a ministry particularly with regard to celibacy.
Desperate for clarity I applied for the 2009 Youth Leaders Formation Course run by the Sydney Archdiocese; an intensive month-long retreat program of formation and prayer with no phone, no internet and speakers from all over the diocese sharing their wisdom and knowledge about the faith. It was during the silence of this retreat where I realised that I was simply a person loved by God, and that being a priest would be possible.
My return from the Youth Leaders Formation Course strengthened my openness to the priestly vocation. My attention to life’s meaning also imbued new motivation in my work. I said to God, “Lord, I will go wherever you lead me, just let me complete my degree,” and I graduated with a distinction for my thesis.
Completion of the engineering degree however presented the temptation to make use of my qualification. I said to God, “Lord, just let me work for a little while with my degree.” And I also bargained with God, “Lord, let me live an ordinary family and working life. I will have many children and send two to the seminary and two to the convent; with a 50% dropout rate that’s one guaranteed priest and nun!”
I worked for the following two years in multiple jobs and dated with the intention to commit to marriage. But I found myself unsatisfied. The call to the priesthood remained. I knew that even though God would bless whatever decision I made I would only be 99% happy. That 1% would bug me for the rest of my life. God had called me to another way of life.
Whilst I was working and dating, I attended as many Catholic events as I could, especially any event which involved discernment such as Silence and Solitude Sundays at the seminary and the various Men’s Retreats run by the religious. It was during this time that God developed in me the resolve to be a priest and by the end of 2010 I was committed to entering either the Sydney or Parramatta seminary but found myself unable to commit to either. Conflicted, I asked God for a sign to tell me where I should go. I was convinced I would be a diocesan priest. I gave God a deadline - by the end of the year 2011, I would apply to a seminary.
By the beginning of 2011 I had saved up some money from my work and a pilgrimage to World Youth Day Madrid providentially came. Desperate for an answer, I attended the pilgrimage which spanned Egypt, the Holy Land and on to Madrid. The trial of the pilgrimage made me realise that I was suited for community life and that to lay one’s life down meant not having my way, God is the one who knows what will make me truly happy. This caused me to reflect on my discernment over the previous three years. I saw then that my path towards the priestly vocation included direction towards life as a religious, particularly with the Dominican’s.
I had met and spoken with Dominican friars in Sydney, the Holy Land and Madrid during two separate WYD pilgrimages. There was a Dominican priest who visited my university to say Mass on campus; a friend had introduced me to the Dominican laity of which I had already been received as a member; my cousin had joined the Dominican Order; I was instituted an acolyte by a Dominican bishop in the Parramatta diocese; I had attended a week-long retreat in the Dominican student house in Melbourne - it felt like coming home but I was not interested because it felt too familiar. My discernment had somehow involved the Dominican’s throughout. In my heart I belonged with this Order but my pride had held me from following Christ in this way.
The trial of pilgrimage revealed to me who I was and faced with myself it allowed me the grace and humility to yield to my vocation. Upon my return to Sydney from WYD Madrid I applied to join the Order of Preachers - the Dominicans.
Looking back in some sense my life was rather ordinary, but God moved me to live something extraordinary. At whatever place in life you find yourself in, I hope that each of you find a way to be open to what God has in store for you.
Prospect Catholic boys’ school, Blackfriars, has announced a restructure of fees for students in the first years of Primary School. The decision, ratified by the school board at its July meeting, will see the introduction of a simplified flat tuition fee across the first three years of school and includes reductions to current tuition fees of 25% at Reception and 33% at Year 1 and Year 2.
The change means Junior Primary families will save between $ 1,187 and $ 1,784 per student in 2020.
Another component of the restructure sees the waiving of any enrolment fees for boys who move into Reception from the school’s award-winning co-educational Early Learning Centre. A further saving to families of $ 400 per student.
Discounts already available to families with boys and girls in other Catholic schools will be doubled as another key part of the announcement.
Blackfriars Principal, Mr Simon Cobiac, announced the restructure in a letter emailed to families this week. “It is my hope that these measures will be well received by our community in difficult economic times and provide savings to the family budget whilst ensuring the continuation of the highest quality education and care of your son at Blackfriars,” Mr Cobiac said.
Mr Cobiac, now in his third year as Principal at the 66-year-old school on Prospect Road, indicated in his letter that further fee announcements would be made relating to other year levels once the school’s 2020 Fee Schedule was ratified by the school board at its October meeting.
This week’s announcement follows on from a number of significant initiatives coming out of Blackfriars over past six months including:
> Construction of a $10 million STEM and Senior Secondary Centre to commence in the second half of 2019;
> A recommitment to boys’ education, underpinned by joining the International Boys’ Schools Coalition;
> Capping of school size at 805 boys (205 Primary (Reception to Year 6) + 600 Secondary (Years 7 to 12));
> The introduction of a specialist Ax (Academic Extension) Academy program, focused on developing STEM and employability skills through links with industry;
> The addition of a specialist AFL Academy program, supported by the North Adelaide Football Club, to the school’s long-established and highly successful Soccer Academy; and
> Expansion of the school’s International Students’ Program to 50 boys by 2023 supported by membership of StudyAdelaide and the Adelaide Independent Schools’ Alliance.
Mr Cobiac, Staff, Students, Guests, and 2018 Graduates,
When I joined Blackfriars for my first year in 2014, I never would’ve pictured myself in the position that I am in right now. It blows my mind that five years have already passed, and I am able to be up here by such a small margin. I am extremely grateful to see that my hard work and dedication have paid off to this extent. I am also pleased to be joined by the class of 2018 today; congratulations on your results. And to Alessandro and Randula; you guys deserve to be on this stage as much as I do.
Year 12 went by extremely fast as deadlines kept pouring in. This made it hard to see the year for what it actually was; it was seen for mainly the result in the end. Although this number determines what you can study in university, it is important to recognise that the ATAR does not make you who you are. I ended up choosing a uni course that requires an ATAR of 80, which, for some reason, is so surprising to people. It is a course I feel like I am really going to succeed in and I feel compelled to pursue it. So why did I aim so high? I didn’t need to, but I did it anyway. I did it to prove myself. To show that I can do it and I will do it. And I did it to beat my brother, the dux of 2017. School was like a competition to me, where a good ATAR was my motivating factor to do well. It was long term goal which encouraged me to try my hardest. By pushing myself in Year 12, I was able to stimulate growth in a social and academic sense. I essentially became a better version of myself. By the end of the year, I had formed new relationships with peers and teachers and strengthened existing ones. Looking back, my ATAR was just the by-product of my journey at Blackfriars.
To me, doing well academically in my final year came down to being prepared and knowing my potential. Before entering Year 12, I was open to advice from Year 12 students and teachers. This provided me with a sense of direction throughout the year, as if I had already experienced it and I knew where I was going. I do not regret trying my best each year and taking the time to go the extra mile just to have a nice set of letters in my report. It often felt like time sacrificed for nothing, but really, that was time spent learning more about myself. When I started Year 12, I knew what I was capable of and I knew that I was going to do well. I also knew that I didn’t have to give up the things I enjoy. So, in Year 12 I continued doing sports, going out with friends and procrastinating with computer games and YouTube videos (I probably would have done a lot better if I did give up the games and videos though). But, I am not saying that Year 12 will be easy, in fact, I don’t think I would’ve done so well on my own.
I really owe a lot to Blackfriars. From Year 8 through to year 12, I had always been privileged with great teachers. This is the perfect opportunity for me to say thank you, not just to the ones that have taught me, but to all teachers at Blackfriars. Because, teaching is a challenge. Sometimes the effort put in just doesn’t pay off. However, when it does pay off, the result is something beautiful. It’s called learning. As a part of their profession, teachers are always committed to and making sacrifices for the sake of learning. I also need to give a big shout out to the support staff. Most of the work they do is behind the scenes, so it often goes unnoticed. I believe they are more than deserving of some recognition.
I also have so much to give back to my family. From a young age, my parents have always wanted me to succeed in school. I am extremely pleased that I could make this a reality for them, but I can never thank them enough for everything they have done for me. I would also like to thank my older brother, Tam, for laying out the path for me throughout school and being my main source of pressure to do well.
And last but not least, to my friends, the class of 2018, thank you for making my image of Blackfriars one that’s full of cherished moments and new experiences. Thank you for making my time at Blackfriars unforgettable.
To the current students, I’d like to say, make the most out of your time at school because it will go by faster than you think. I hope you all have a wonderful 2019.
Duy Minh Vu Tran
Class of 2018
Guest speaker at the 2018 Academic Assembly held at Bonython Hall, The University of Adelaide this year was Class of 2015 graduate, Ehsan Danish. Ehsan was kind enough to share his speech with us below.
I want to tell you a story. It’s a story of a little man who lived in a little village. He owned a little shop and sold the grain and fodder he harvested from his own land. The man was very happy – he owned all the land he could see from the valley to the mountains. He had brought 6 children into the world who frolicked in the fields and tended the animals. He had all that he desired but…
… unfortunately, the universe conspired against him. And when the trucks filled with militia came rolling past he was forced to make the only decision possible – he packed his family and their prized possessions into the back of a truck and travelled hundreds of kilometres in the blackest of nights to reach a foreign border.
Five years later this little man grasped the reins of his own destiny and once again stepped forward into the unknown. He left his wife and children in the relative safety of Iran and travelled unknown lands and crossed treacherous seas – all in order to reach the land of opportunity.
At the same time – in a distant land a young graphic design student named Carolyn Davidson was also offered an opportunity. She was paid $35 to design a logo which has become the quintessential icon of our generation - now valued at $26 billion. Davidson created the swoosh which inspired the famous slogan: Just Do It. This has become the ‘greatest’ philosophical dictum of the 21st Century.
How do these narratives intersect? It’s based on the concept of opportunities – these two stories show that sometimes opportunities are forced upon us whilst others are simply placed before us.
Three years ago, I was in your seat – Everyone was telling me that I had all the opportunities of the world ahead of me. And I did – I could be almost anything I wanted to be and everything that my parents expected. You see – the little man in the story before is my father who had battled against great adversity to provide me with this opportunity.
And – I am sure- your own families have their own great narratives – which have paved the road to your opportunities.
I want to return to the famous slogan – Just Do It – it is perhaps the most radical coin of phrase to corrupt a generation. We are a generation of – Just do its – but many of us have fallen down the slippery slow of doing the wrong thing.
The old people around us frequently condemn our generation because we live in a world of opportunities gifted to us from them – for them it all appears too easy. But this ease is our greatest challenge. It’s so much harder to commit to a goal when entertainment is just one click away. It’s harder to be fitter and stronger when we are dosed up on sugar and caffeine. It’s hard to grasp the opportunities before us – when there are too many to choose from.
I – however - consider myself to epitomise the idea of opportunity. I was nothing but the son of the little man in the story. I was an Afghan refugee whose father could offer me nothing but a world of opportunities. He sent me to a great school – a school filled with great minds and great spirits. My father – and all those I came in contact with showed me the potential of this world. I was taught most importantly how to seize opportunities – how hard work and an inquisitive mind can open a world of possibilities.
Three years ago – I sat where you sat – proud of my accomplishments – more proud to know that the opportunities I had before me were not my doing alone. One African proverb states– ‘It takes a village to raise a child’ – and whilst I was far removed from my village roots – I recognised even then that the world I had been raised in – was my village. And whilst I have wandered the world and met more kindred souls – it is the roots of my formation which ground me. Blackfriars has provided me with a solid base – for here I learnt to value integrity and comradery.
During my time at Blackfriars – I learnt that Just Doing It wasn’t enough. I learnt that the path to manhood was based on the choices I made in - exactly what to do. At some stage in my education – probably very late on –the purpose and meaning in life became clear. I tightened the reins on my wandering mind and raised my head from the screen. And – it was at that point that I came to see that opportunities were all around me.
It was at this point in time that I truly began to recognise that all opportunities were linked intrinsically to the decisions we make. I learnt that the pathway to manhood involved steps towards autonomy. And in saying this – I am not referring to independence or freedom – but to personal accountability. In the long path towards manhood I gradually began to realise that all the mistakes and all the regrets I had amassed could not be lumped onto a parent, a teacher or a peer. And when this notion really sunk in I began to look forward instead of perpetually backward.
I do look backward now – but with gratitude. I am grateful for being given an opportunity to be part of what every single person I know coins as a very unique community. Blackfriars is a community that embraced me – protected me from all the rhetoric of my alien Muslim identity. It gave me a voice and a shared identity so that I could consider no other place in the world but Australia my home. It is the most unique little village – a village filled with people from across the globe – a village which houses people with a thousand different ideologies – but one shared vision – comradery. In this – I learnt – that the divisions we create are purely on the surface – that if we have an open heart and an open mind then all of humanity is relatable.
And - as you look towards your future – I invite you to reflect on the words of the great man Dyson Hilder. He once said, “Graduating means a new opportunity for me to move forward in my life. It’s sad because it means I leave the comfort of the school and the company of people who I have grown friendships with over many years, but is exciting for the next stage of life.’
And as you enter the next stage of your life – I invite you to reflect on my humble beginnings. I want you to understand that great opportunities in life come to all that are open to them. That not all opportunities are wrapped in gold – and that sometimes the greatest opportunities we have are when we are faced with great adversity. It is during these times that you can rise up to the challenge and be ‘great’.
My father was once the littlest man in the world – But for me – He is the greatest man of all time.
I congratulate each and every one of you for rising up to the challenge of Year 12 and I wish you and your families all the joy in the opportunities which have been presented to you
Today we celebrated the feast of St Dominic, founder of the Dominican Order of Preachers.
As part of our celebration, we were joined by Class of 1992 Head Prefect, Dharmesh Raman, who gave the anuual St Dominic's Day address. Dharmesh's inspirational words are reproduced below and available to hear on Soundcloud.
Let me begin by thanking Mr Cobiac and Mr Ruggiero for asking me to speak to you all today. Before I start there is something I have to do, for all the students that don’t know, Mr Ruggiero’s favourite story of my time here as head prefect is the one of me taking off my head prefects tie and announcing to the year 12 students that at that moment I was speaking to them as one of them rather than as a prefect. So it’s only appropriate that I do the same today and speak to you as a fellow student. I must admit the story does make me cringe as it should – what was I thinking!!! Yet here I am doing it again. Obviously, I didn’t learn from that lesson, but there are some things that Blackfriars did teach me. I can summarise it in four words - fortune, friendship, fundamentals and faith.
The word fortune has two meanings – one is a large amount of money and assets, the other is chance or luck as a force that affects human affairs. Fortune for me falls into the second category. I am fortunate that my parents worked incredibly hard to send me here. I am fortunate that I met my lifelong friends here. I am fortunate that this school gave me a thirst for knowledge. I am fortunate that this thirst has brought me to a place where I now fully understand that it’s the fundamentals in life that bring me the most joy and finally I am fortunate that Blackfriars provided me with the foundations to build everything on – my faith in God. All of which I wouldn’t trade in for any amount of money or assets!!!
It certainly hasn’t been an easy journey, but one that I have learnt a lot from. A year after I left high school I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and felt very disillusioned because by all estimates I had to know – after all I was head prefect. At the same time, I got a casual job at Peter Shearer Menswear, which I absolutely loved but was terrible at – I was too shy and lacked confidence – so much so one of the directors, Tony Gilligan, gave me an ultimatum – shape up or be gone in a month’s time.
My life was not panning out the way I had imagined, in Business school they call it the Newtonian Paradigm – cause and effect – I do this therefore this must now happen – just because I was head prefect and had good grades didn’t mean my life was going to be planned out perfectly. In fact, it was the total opposite – I dropped out of Uni and faked it till I made it at Shearer’s. The world is full of complexity and we all need the ability to recognise the opportunities that present themselves. It took me 10 years, a severe illness and the kindness of Tony Gilligan to turn my life around. During these 10 years it was my friends like Mr Ruggiero that kept me going.
My friends really understood me because they were going through exactly what I was going through – I mean it was uncanny, when I had long hair they had long hair (some wish they still had the long hair), when my clothes started shrinking in the wardrobe, so did theirs, when I started getting grey hair so did theirs, even when some started losing all their hair so did some of the others (this is where Mr Ruggiero and I stood out from the crowd). The fact is this, in life we all go through pretty the much the same things – sometimes these things can bring us immense joy or immense sadness – but the meaning of these events is strengthened by sharing it with the people you love the most and for me having seven best friends from high school right next to me through this entire journey has made all of these events special for many different reasons. It is true that Blackfriars is one of the few schools that embrace this culture. In the 24 years I have worked at Shearers I have come across many men from many other schools but it’s the Blacks boys that tend to have lifelong friendships – we are the ones that have our high school mates as groomsmen and best men at our weddings – and the number of old scholars that I speak to that still have strong friendships with their high school friends is incredible. Cherish this because it is very special and when you look back at all the things you have done in your life, keeping your high school friends is one that will be high on your list of achievements. Keeping your high school friends also keeps you young, just ask our wives – they reckon we behave like children when we get together –so it must be a good thing!!!
Keeping my friends from high school has also kept me on a straight and narrow path. They often remind me and vice versa that life is about keeping to the fundamentals – doing what is good and fighting a good fight. Make no mistake, when you leave this place you will be facing many challenges. These challenges will come in many forms all designed to test you as a person. Just remember this, technology or money can never replace relationships. Relationships are built on honesty, trust, humility and hard work. I remind my staff that our business is not based on selling clothes but rather the relationships we build with each other, our suppliers and our customers. Keeping your high school friends for 30 years is a good barometer for learning how to build strong relationships. In fact, as you move up the ranks of your chosen professions you will realise that leadership comes from emotional intelligence. One criteria for sitting on the boards of companies is not only your technical ability but also your ability to understand, communicate and build relationships with other people using this emotional intelligence. It takes emotional intelligence to know how to get the best out of people by tapping into their intrinsic motivations and understanding that everyone brings their own experiences and attitudes to the task at hand. It still amazes me that everyone in business school gets taught the same theory but the practice can vary so wildly. Why is it that good people sitting on boards can make such poor decisions (even criminal ones for that matter)!!! It takes courage to take the right course of action. Courage is being compassionate towards others. Compassion is empathy in action. Empathy comes from putting yourself in the shoes of others. How do you learn to do this? It is simple – Love God with all your heart, and with all your soul and with all your strength and all your mind and love your neighbour as yourself. To all of you this may be words that were spoken 2000 odd years ago, but let me assure you that they are as relevant today as they were back then. Some of the most challenging work I did throughout my Masters in Business Administration was around self-reflection, being authentic, making ethical decisions and servant leadership. I remember distinctly one afternoon talking to Mr Ruggiero about my learnings in the course and his response was – isn’t it amazing, all the things that are required from you as a business leader, Jesus already laid out in the bible. It’s just the words we use today are different. The act is still the same.
For a long time I struggled to love myself, and it caused me a lot of difficulty loving other people, let alone putting myself in their shoes. The change came for me when I started really looking after myself - physically, mentally and spiritually. As you can see with this fine physic, I really struggle with the physical component. I try, but I fail more than I succeed – but I keep trying. I have also heard from Mr Ruggiero that the school has introduced daily meditations – this I believe is one of the best things you could do for yourselves – in fact a significant component of my MBA consisted of meditating and recognising the connection between my mental state and my physical state. A motto of the Dominican order is “to contemplate and to give to others the fruits of contemplation”. The Dominican tradition is to contemplate to reach the truth. Meditation allows me to contemplate and reach the truth. It allows me to recognise my true feelings based on my actions and the actions of others. I can then recognise how these feelings have manifested itself in my physical state. Once I’ve recognised these components I can instantly let it go by bringing empathy to myself and those around me – empathy is the fruits of my contemplation. Empathy towards myself gave me the confidence that I lacked to complete my MBA, my Company Directors course and become Managing Director of Peter Shearer Menswear. This was only the first step; the second step is to love my neighbours like I learnt to love myself. Empathy towards others. Who are my neighbours, well its everyone, but on a day to day basis it’s my family, friends and work colleagues. We do everything at Shearers to provide our staff with work life integration, we don’t like using the word balance because that suggests that work life and home life are on opposite ends of the scale constantly competing with each other. As directors of the business we make it our duty to serve our employees. We constantly strive to provide a positive work environment for people to thrive – negativity only serves one purpose – to suck the energy out of people. Our mission is twofold – to care about each other and to care about our customers. My aim is to instil this behaviour in every stakeholder of our business because it’s one way that I can live my faith – to love my neighbours as myself. The third step is to love God with all my being. Why? It’s his teachings that guide my business decisions. What I learnt in business school was what I learnt here 25 years ago – it just took me that long to make the connections and build the courage. You will learn that throughout your careers, the toughest decisions will be based around people and your courage will come from doing what’s right for the people around you.
In summary, I was fortunate to go to Blackfriars as a student, it gave me lifelong friendships that taught me the single most important lesson in life – how to build relationships. I have learnt that the relationships we have with ourselves and others are built on fundamentals of contemplation and truth that are driven by our faith in God. I’ll leave you with my fifth “F”, have fun. A sense of fun will allow you to take away learnings from every situation. It costs nothing to smile and its worth more than its weight in gold.
Dear Families and Community of Blackfriars Priory School,
Blessings for Christmas 2017
May we remember the coming of the Christ Child this Christmas.
In our School and in our lives, we are challenged to bring about the kingdom He proclaimed.
May you and your families be richly blessed at this holy time.
May the holidays provide a time for rest, recovery, fun, joy and reflection.